Pink Tape

A BLOG FROM THE FAMILY BAR

...in which I ricochet from too serious to too flippant and where I may vent, rant or wax lyrical at my own whim, mostly about family law. Constructive co-ranting welcome. More...

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Staying Sane in Family Law

The lovely people at Bath Publishing* are running a series of workshops to launch a new book they are publishing by Anne Marie Carvalho.

The book is called Staying Sane in Family Law – and the name Anne Marie Carvalho is one which often crops up in the context of wellbeing discussions.

For a fee of £150 you get to attend one of the workshops and your own copy of the book.

If I wasn’t in court elsewhere on the day of the one local to me I would be going.

For those interested details are here: https://bathpublishing.com/products/staying-sane-in-family-law-seminars

* Declaration of interest. They are lovely because they publish my book Family Court Without a Lawyer, so obviously have very good taste in authors. I haven’t read the book, but I do know that Anne Marie is highly respected in her field. And anything that can help us stay sane (or regain some sanity) in the crazy world of family law is A. Good. Thing.

Two little letters

I feel I should mark the milestone of my appointment as King's Counsel on Pink Tape, the blog which has been a sort of companion throughout most of my legal career to date (including that time when The Times wrongly mistook me for Queen's Counsel, a decade too early). The only problem is I'm really not sure what to say, for fear of being a terrible bore, a terrible big head or both. At the moment, I think I'm going to say no more than this: it's an exciting and daunting time. I'm trying to enjoy all the excitement and buzz that it brings, whilst also taking it deadly seriously and (if I'm honest, which is arguably my weakness) slightly bricking it. It's a big honour and a big responsibility. Some people will roll their eyes, others won't really know what it means, and others will be sad because they applied for appointment and didn't get it (been there - it hurts). I sense that anything I say right now is at risk of irritating, upsetting or confusing one or other contingent. And I...

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There may be trouble ahead…

You might think that no news is good news. And that since the Qualified Legal Representatives ('QLR') scheme has been in force for 8 months, the comparative invisibility of it must mean its all bedding in nicely. Actually, it's just bedding in verrrrrry slowly. I am signed up to be a QLR, albeit for only a few courts local to me (more on why anon), because I think that its important that the scheme works, even if it is an inelegant solution to the problem at hand. But yesterday was the first time I've been asked if I could do a QLR case. Oddly, it wasn't for a court I'd signed up for and rather than being directed to me personally, it was clearly sent to a number of people (bcc'd). And I wasn't alone in receiving an email when I hadn't signed up to that court. This suggests that HMCTS are having to abandon their rota system and cast the net far and wide to find a QLR for their case. Uh ohs. The case was a two day Private Law Fact Finding in Truro with a 30 min PTR a month before....

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“I want” doesn’t get

Interesting example of how not to successfully apply for disclosure of information from the family court here, in Thames Valley Police v Ms F & Anor [2023] EWFC 28. A police force sought disclosure of material from family proceedings in the course of investigating threats to kill by one party which had been covertly recorded by some sort of phone hacking app by the other (the mother). The father had a criminal conviction for domestic violence against the mother, and the family court had concluded he was high risk. The police already knew most of this when they applied.   The judgment is a CJ level judgment from HHJ Vincent, so it isn't strictly authority for anything. But it is typically lucid and is very helpful as a case study. What can we take from this case? Applications for disclosure of information should be backed by evidence and a clear explanation of WHAT is needed and WHY (which may well mean the police need to say what they have and to identify documents or categories...

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What I’ve been up to…

Busy couple of weeks. I've been to Cambridge, Brighton, London, Exeter and Cardiff. Packed and unpacked my suitcase a lot. Snoozed on a lot of trains. Earned a bit of money, spent a lot. Was interviewed for a podcast. Did some legal blogging. Did not finish my book chapters. Cooked Sunday lunch, but on a Saturday. Fell asleep on the sofa. Now for Sunday homework club. But on a Saturday...  

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S91(14) – the sequel

Many, many years ago I wrote a piece for Family Law Week about s91(14) Children Act. It’s still up on the FLW site here (yes, the picture is me in 2011). I have thought about updating it over the years, but until now I have never been sufficiently bored and it has never been sufficiently urgent. After all, whilst there have been various published judgments over the years since (mainly successful appeals against the making of such orders), they all refer back to and fall in line with Re P (A Child) [1999] EWCA Civ 1323, (which is even older than that amusing picture). The title of that 2011 article posed the question: ‘A never ending story?’And so it has proven ultimately to be, because last year (on May 19th to be precise) s91(14) was amended by the Domestic Abuse Act 2021. That created new s91A Children Act 1989 which essentially re-crafts when and how the court should consider and exercise its s91(14) jurisdiction. With it came a whole new PD (PD12Q), and a number of other PDs were...

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About this blog

“Pink Tape” isn’t just about family law. I post about topics that interest me, which mostly revolve around family law, but also include non-legal family-related topics as well as unrelated subjects. I hope this blog will convince at least one person that not all of us in the legal profession are money-hungry sharks. Some of us are actually quite nice. Additionally, I aim to provide useful information about family law for those working in the field without being too heavy or boring.

The primary goal of the blog is to improve the quality of public information and discussions about legal issues.

I understand that not everyone is a fan of “Pink Tape” or family lawyers in general.

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