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...in which I ricochet from too serious to too flippant and where I may vent, rant or wax lyrical at my own whim, mostly about family law. Constructive co-ranting welcome. More...

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End of an era?

I’m away at the moment, trying to decompress after another year that can be best described as a mixed bag. Some joy, some loss, much hard work.

But as the clock strikes midnight at the end of 2025 I will shed one hat and put on another. I will stop being the Chair of the Transparency Project, and become (as if by magic) the Vice Chair of the FLBA.

My feelings are mixed about this too. Excitement and trepidation about the FLBA, and sadness and hope about the Transparency Project. It isn’t healthy for any one organisation to have the same leader forever, so I hope that in stepping down from the TP I will also free it up to become something more than ‘Lucy’s pet project’ (it is much more than that, because it has always been very much a team effort, but that is the perception), and something more enduring. I’ll still be involved in TP, but it’s time for others to take it forward.

In the same way, I hope that new hands and eyes at the FLBA will also do that organisation some good – whilst Leslie Samuels and I have been around on the FLBA committee (and Leslie as an officer) for some years, we are both relative newcomers in comparison to the outgoing chair, James Roberts. I don’t think the members of the FLBA fully appreciate the work he has put in on their behalf over the years, and the impact that work has had, so although I am undoubtedly nothing like a clone of James (the mind boggles at such an idea), I do know that whatever Leslie and I are able to achieve during our terms of office will be based upon that solid foundation. We have much to thank James for and a lot to live up to.

Anyway, this is all very worthy. I hope that this short post finds you well, that it will go out on cue at its scheduled time and that it will find its way into your inbox whilst you are sipping a lovely drink on a very squishy sofa – whether that drink is a delightful chablis, a sloe gin, a pina colada or a hot chocolate – and that you will have had some brief respite from the onslaught of time sensitive and emotionally taxing work that we all do.

May 2026 bring you peace and contentment. Look after yourselves x

Can a judge make orders about a child who isn’t a subject of the proceedings?

Nope, say the Court of Appeal in a really interesting judgment delivered this week, in which my super colleague Olivia Pike argued and won the appeal. See E (Section 37 Direction, The Children Act 1989), [2025] EWCA Civ 470. I'm glad this has been cleared up because we all know that every so often a judge makes an order under s37 about a child that isn't the subject of the proceedings. Not that often, but often enough. The only wonder is that it hasn't been appealed and clarified before now. The wording of s37 is undoubtedly tempting for a judge with a legitimate concern about a child she has become aware of that is connected to the family that is before the court, but not actually a part of the case. A provision that appears to apply to 'any child' is an alluring solution to this problem. To my knowledge these orders are made from time to time, and the scenario in the appeal isn't an outlier - the court is often provided with information about other children in a household, who...

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Necessity is the mother of intermediaries

Judgment was handed down this morning in Re M (A Child: Intermediaries) [2025] EWCA Civ 440. I had a small non-speaking part (for the FLBA). The judgment is a delightfully streamlined read and brings some welcome clarity to the approach on the appointment of intermediaries. As my - frankly fabulous - post title suggests, necessity is the test, baby. Nothing else will do: Not compelling. Not rare. Not exceptional. Just plain old necessary. Lord Justice Peter Jackson had this to say about the various high court authorities from which these high bar tests have emerged (before going on to politely demolish them): In the three appeals about intermediaries that it has heard since Part 3A came into effect, this court has taken its provisions at face value.  Considering that the regulatory framework is recent, it is unpromising ground for a wider exercise in judicial interpretation. So, the various High Court authorities suggesting necessity plus in various flavours can be put to one side,...

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Bristol Cable Podcast

The Bristol Cable Podcast interviewed some local girl about transparency recently. No idea who she is, but have a listen if you fancy. https://thebristolcable.org/2025/02/listen-bristol-unpacked-barrister-lucy-reed-opening-secretive-family-courts-to-scrutiny/ Also recommended is BBC Radio 4 short 10 part series 'You do not have to say anything' featuring criminal defence barrister and sausage dog owner Joanna Hardy Susskind, and some other stars of the criminal bar that you will want to hear from (I won't spoil it for you). Really good explanation of how it works (and doesn't). Listen here.   Lots more has been happening this week - New Guidance on judges writing letters to children (a big thumbs up on that), a reminder that we shouldn't be 'citing' cases that aren't citable (generally decisions of Circuit Judges and below aren't citable, just interesting!), and covert recording guidance... oh no, wait. Not that last one....  

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I may have been gone some time…

Posts are getting ever more infrequent around here. Doubtless in part because of my continuing inability to say 'no'. Having been on the verge of being virtually committee-less at the end of last year, I now find myself back on two committees (FLBA, Bar Council). The Transparency Project work continues, and I seem to be forever scrambling to keep on top of that. I am desperate to find some time to do more legal blogging (my last outing in October has been stuck in the mud for reasons I can't tell you about at the moment, so I've nothing to show for my endeavours on that front), and I've been flat out with work since December. On top of all that there has been lots happening at home so there is much to juggle. All excuses of course. I used to manage multiple posts a week whilst wrangling two toddlers and writing a book. I smile weakly whenever someone says to me 'Oh, I don't know how you manage it all', knowing of course that approximately once a week a plate goes careering off its...

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Transparency and the Courts – Event

Transparency and the Courts – Event

It is a principle of law that justice must be seen to be done - but sometimes for various reasons the court will order reporting restrictions on the proceedings as well as keeping certain matters confidential.   The new Lady Chief Justice has set up a committee to examine transparency and the family court has just introduced reforms to make courts more open. Where should the line be drawn? Leading legal commentator Joshua Rozenberg will give a keynote speech at historic No 1 Court at the Old Bailey followed by discussion by an expert panel. There will be a networking drinks in the splendid grand hall. City & Legal Event: Transparency and the Courts Speaker: Joshua Rozenberg KC (Hon) Chair: Alderman & Sheriff Gregory Jones KC; Panel: Sanchia Berg (BBC Senior Correspondent, Nominee Orwell Prize 2023), Lucy Reed KC, Chair of The Transparency Project, author of The Family Court without a Lawyer A Handbook for Litigants in Person, HH Wendy Joseph KC (former Old Bailey Judge and...

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“Pink Tape” isn’t just about family law. I post about topics that interest me, which mostly revolve around family law, but also include non-legal family-related topics as well as unrelated subjects. I hope this blog will convince at least one person that not all of us in the legal profession are money-hungry sharks. Some of us are actually quite nice. Additionally, I aim to provide useful information about family law for those working in the field without being too heavy or boring.

The primary goal of the blog is to improve the quality of public information and discussions about legal issues.

I understand that not everyone is a fan of “Pink Tape” or family lawyers in general.

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What are we doing with our lives?

I've been cautious about posting anything recently. My head is awl of a muddle and I may say something I will later regret. But I've got itchy fingers and am sitting quietly at home with nobody to distract me, so... I should be at work this week. In fact I should be...

I have run out of vases

Trigger warning: death.   My mum died last week. Her name was Suzanne (never Susan). I realised as I studied her face after it happened that I have never seen a dead body before. Her top lip was taut over her teeth. She looked weirdly waxen. Her forehead was cool...

What my out of office really means…

The other day I put a polite but hopefully firm OOO on my emails, explaining that I am not taking on new work and will deal only with emails relating to existing commitments. This morning I seriously contemplated rewording it to simply read: "For the love of god,...

Two more books, still working on that novel…

Hot on the heels of the second edition of Transparency in the Family Courts, released last week, I received these beauties in the post today. The Public Law Dictionary is a new addition to this family of dictionaries, and I am one of the authors. Other titles include...

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