Pink Tape

A BLOG FROM THE FAMILY BAR

...in which I ricochet from too serious to too flippant and where I may vent, rant or wax lyrical at my own whim, mostly about family law. Constructive co-ranting welcome. More...

19 November 2008

moving on

Just a thought about how often in intractable contact cases it is very difficult for parents to move on – not only because of the issues in the case themselves but because of the need to retain eligibility for legal aid – often a parent (typically a father) is unable to go out and look for work to occupy his mind and time because in doing so he will lose his legal aid. It leaves people in a frustrating limbo where they cannot go out and fulfill themselves in other ways and have nothing to focus on but the destructive litigation. There shouldn’t really have to be a choice between gainful employment and being able to pursue a relationship with your child. And in the intractable type of case I’m thinking of I would not be suggesting a parent should be expected to act as a litigant in person.

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Posts are getting ever more infrequent around here. Doubtless in part because of my continuing inability to say 'no'....

3 Comments

  1. Swiss Tony

    Pinky, interesting stuff.

    In my experience, and I will be the first to admit it is limited and tends to be just fathers, but in 99% of those it is the father that works and its the mother on Lucoziad.

    The father can’t afford to work, pay CSA, pay the mortgage and a solicitor, so they go LIP, against the missus.

    For most men, going LIP tends to be their downfall, but they are sort of stuffed really.

    Presumably, if I looked beyond the hordes of dads desperate for assistance (for free if possible) I would see a bigger picture.

    Looks like I should get out more!

    Swizz

    Reply
    • Sophie Gurung

      What does LIP stand for?

      Reply
      • familoo

        Litigant in Person – someone representing themselves in a court case, without a lawyer.

        Reply

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